Visual Techniques for Developing Social Skills

As an autism parent, have you ever felt at a loss for words when you try to explain a social skill to your child? For example, how in the world do you explain personal space to your child, especially if (s)he currently doesn’t care about people? Rebecca Moyes, MEd, wrote just the book to help: Visual Techniques for Developing Social Skills.

Since kids on the autism spectrum usually need assistance in determining how to act in many social situations, and since they also need visual prompts, Rebecca Moyes created activities using everyday items to help them understand why a social skill is needed, and then how to perform it. She also gives parents and educators just the right words for explanation, without being overly verbose so that you lose the child.

The activity “Using a Colander [Strainer] to Teach Filtering of Thoughts to Avoid Inappropriate Language” pays for the book, in my humble opinion. In this one activity, Rebecca helps children visualize different kinds of words, names them green/red (go/stop) words, and discusses a variety of each kind to help the child understand that there is a need to filter what we want to say.

Here’s what I love about Visual Techniques for Developing Social Skills:

  • Immediately practical
  • A substitute teacher could pick it up, read it verbatim, and lead a social skills group
  • IEP goals included
  • Step-by-step instructions for each activity
  • Verbiage included! Even if you’re not leading a group, you can use Rebecca’s words over and over again as you practice a skill set with your child.
  • Materials list for each activity–and they’re already in your home or easy to get
  • Resource list at the end

Future Horizons priced Visual Techniques for Developing Social Skills so that parents could get the help they need–$14.95! However, if you use my affiliate code, HATS, you can get 15% off! If you live in the continental US, you also receive FREE SHIPPING! Read more about the book here.You can also use that code for anything on the site, including conferences, so you may want to grab a cup of coffee and go browsing.

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S’more Success!

This week gluten-free graham crackers were on sale. Yesterday I had an idea: why not introduce the boys to the childhood fun known as S’mores?

Now, if you aren’t familiar with a S’more, it’s usually made at campfires. You roast some marshmallows, and then grab two graham crackers. You make a sandwich out of the marshmallows, a chunk of chocolate, and the graham crackers.

We didn’t have a campfire. We used a microwave, mini chocolate chips from Enjoy Life, mini marshmallows, and our on-sale graham crackers. It became a practice in dexterity as the boys tried to get the mini chips and marshmallows to stay on top. Then the big question was, would Mommy explode the marshmallows in the microwave, instead of just melt them? (No!)

However, the ultimate question was, would Dr. J actually EAT them? Why, you may ask? Continue reading

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Enjoy Life Foods Has a New Snack–Plentils!

I have a confession. I miss Cheetos. Yes, I know they have no nutritional value. Yes, I know they’re not good for me. I still miss them from time to time. That, and Bavarian cream donuts with chocolate frosting.

But I digress.

Once on Twitter I made a comment that I missed Cheetos, that I wanted a crunchy cheesy snack. Enjoy Life Foods’ Chief Marketing Officer Joel replied, “Just wait, we’re working on something new.”

Oh, the suspense!

Then I got The Email…”Would you like to test these for us?” Are you kidding? Of course!

When the Enjoy Life Foods box arrived (which Dr. J has been able to identify and read for over a year), I opened it in the leasing office where I picked it up. I thought, why not have a taste test with folks who don’t HAVE to eat gluten free (or some other special diet). Enjoy Life Foods sent me one bag of each of the four flavors–Light Sea Salt, Garlic & Parmesan, Margherita Pizza, and Dill & Sour Cream. Three non-food allergy adults tried them, and they all liked them! Margherita Pizza and Garlic & Parmesan were the winners of that taste test.

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Autism Parents Must Always Think Ahead

Remember this post where I was so excited Dr. J took a shower? The continuation of the story is a word of caution, a reminder to stay on your toes and think ahead.

At the third or fourth shower, Dr. J seemed to have it down. I listened carefully while he showered, and was so glad and thankful he was doing so well and enjoying it so much. Then this happened. Continue reading

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World Autism Awareness Day

Last year on Many Hats Mommy I had a whole month of autism awareness. This year, well, I’m too tired. I have been going through a mild fibromyalgia flare, and I’ve also been busy working for Home Educating Family and advocating for special needs over there.

This momma lion is tired!

So, what’s an autism mom to do when she doesn’t have energy to create a new post? Invite her friends to share, of course! If you have written a post for Autism Awareness Month, feel free to leave a comment about it and include the link to your post.

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Instrumental Dreamland–Music for the Soul

I had the pleasure of taking Instrumental Dreamland for a test drive. Here’s part of my review:

Have you ever had a crazy night right before bedtime? A night when the kids are wound up, and hoping they’ll go to sleep seems futile? Ok, you don’t have to raise your hand. I know you’re out there. Instrumental Dreamland is here to help!

With eleven songs in an acoustical style, Instrumental Dreamland will calm your children for sleep. It would also be great for an afternoon break time or background music at dinner. As I was writing this, both my sons were running and stomping around. I asked my six-year-old to put the CD on so we could time it. They both calmed down before the first song was over! That, my friends, is magic that is worth more than $14.98!

You can find the rest of the review over at Home Educating Family Reviews. There’s a giveaway, too, so click over to see how many stars I gave the CD, and enter to win it! (The giveaway widget is on the top right of the review.)

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Jumping Up & Down

I was pretty excited the other day. After I let Dr. J play in the tub for a long time, I decided to be brave. “Would you like to try to stand up and see what the water is like from the shower?”

I expected “no”. I got “Sure!”

Wow.  Continue reading

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Temple Grandin’s New Book: Different, Not Less

I know I just posted a review the other day, but I couldn’t wait to get this in your hands once I finished reading Dr. Temple Grandin’s new book that isn’t even on shelves yet!

I don’t know if I can explain how it felt to sit at my computer and see Temple Grandin’s book on my screen BEFORE it went to print! I still get goosebumps thinking about it! I must start my review by thanking Future Horizons for such an amazing opportunity! Thank you to my readers, too, for giving me an audience! I wouldn’t have reviews and posts to write if it weren’t for you. Please read all the way to the end, Future Horizons has a really special treat for you!

Different, Not Less is Temple Grandin’s newest book–not even on store shelves yet! Dr. Grandin collected stories from adults on the spectrum. They share stories from growing up–from young childhood to college. These folks tell what their challenges and triumphs were. They boldly and bravely let us peek into their personal lives. Continue reading

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There’s an App for That!

Sometimes a company will come up with a marketing phrase that hits pay dirt. Someone in a board room or back room somewhere has a moment of genius that combines words in such a way that our American culture will grab onto it, and the phrase earns its place in history. It becomes part of our every day language.

If you don’t remember “Where’s the beef?”, don’t tell me I’m old. How about, “Can you hear me now?” And, recently, folks have grabbed onto “There’s an app for that!” Continue reading

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FYI, I Miss You

Dear Readers,

I just felt a need to stop in and say “hi” to the best readers in the world! I don’t want you to think I’m ignoring you. Since I have started as Social Media Coordinator at Home Educating Family, my time for my blog has almost disappeared, along with personal time on Twitter!

I miss my friends.

But, please know that I am still busy advocating for autism and special needs! I have incorporated a special needs post over at Home Educating Family’s blog. You can find a post just for you every Saturday! I’ve lined up Paula Kluth, Amalia Starr, and Lisa Lewis to visit our blog! AND, I introduced the World Famous Bobbi Sheahan to my friends over there, and she recorded an episode of Life Plus Homeschooling for the FREE 24/7 online convention they are debuting in the Spring!

I miss chatting with you on Twitter and Facebook, but I believe God has brought this opportunity my way so I can help a mainstream company address the needs of the special needs community. Home Educating Family is excited about helping your families! Even if you are not a homeschooling family, you can still benefit from their blog, magazine, and soon-coming convention.

I am also working on a book with the aforementioned World Famous Bobbi Sheahan. So, dear readers, please know that as soon as I figure out the best way to schedule everything, I will be back to tweeting with you more!

In the meantime, I thank you for your patience and invite you over to Home Educating Family’s blog where you’ll find a very wide variety of topics being discussed!

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